The problem is we try to be like everyone else, instead of just trying to be our own unique, quirky self. Focus on your unique beauty. We are all beautiful in our own way. How boring it would be if we were all the same. Strive to be yourself, not to be like, or look like others. That is them, you are you. Be too focused on loving and accepting yourself to worry about, or envy others. We all have something special about us. It is about finding it.
Psychology of Mindfulness 